Think Positive!!

Today I recieved a great meassage in my mobille. Thought of sharing it with everybody, so here it is:---

Things We Should be thankful for :::----

• WORRIES at the start of the day means you are still ALIVE.

• CLOTHES that don't fit means you have a good APPETITE.

• TEARS in your eyes means there is SOMEBODY YOU CAREfor.

• The MESS to clean after party means you have FRIENDS around you.

• ROOFS that need fixing means you have got a HOUSE.

• TAXES to pay means you are not UNEMPLOYED.

We must think positive in LIFE because everything happens for a REASON.

BE HAPPY!

Journey to Perfection

Are we perfect? Can we be perfect? Does our mental growth ceases after a particular point of time? The answers to all these questions are NO. Someone has said "The only thing constant in life is CHANGE". Actually, any person or anything in life can't be perfect. There is always a scope for betterment, improvements and growth. I was eager to write about this topic because recently, during my interactions with people, I heard questions like why we need to change? What we need to change? What we will be after a change?

Our daily life activities give us lots of opportunities to change ourselves but we simply ignore all the opportunities because our mind asks us the questions mentioned in the last sentences of 1^st paragraph. But these are the qualities of a negative thinker and our objective is to become a positive thinker. We should keep our mind free and flexible so that we can think lucidly and change ourselves as soon as we find scope for it only then we can be a successful positive thinker.

First step for perfection is to realise that we are not yet perfect and still there is a scope for change and only then we will be able to identify the changes required in our thinking and actions. One of the ways to identify the change required is to analyze our daily actions and events with respect to good and bad and then we will discover that we have lists of things to change in our life. There might be many ways to identify these changes but we must remember that path towards perfection is endless. Journey to perfection is the unending journey where “till the last day of our life we will have something in us which we need to change”. We must not get disheartened by this as we are improving day by day and emerging as a better and happier human being.

Out of our daily events some are good which makes us happier, but unfortunately some are bad which makes us sad and it keeps our mind stressed. What we need to do is catch those bad events and think why it is happening. "What is there in me to change so that I avoid those events to happen again in my life?" I am sure after such a thinking we can get relieved from our stress and even avoid such events to happen in our near future.

I know these are not easy tasks and we need to practice hard to think in this way. Even when we identify something to change, it will not be easier to change ourselves but we can achieve perfection only after rigorous practice and training.

My next articles will focus on the methods of practicing and training the mind for these kinds of changes.

Never stop your self-improvement and never deviate from the path of universal perfection.

“When you are finished changing, you're finished.” ― Benjamin Franklin

Be happy and keep growing mentally.

World is Dichotomized

We, humans, always try to prove ourselves a good person. But we must never forget that we have some bad habits and this is true for all. That means everyone and everything has something good and something bad and this is what DICHOTOMY is. If I state the dictionary meaning of Dichotomy it would be “division into two usually contradictory parts or opinions”. Actually good and bad are the two sides of the same coin as it was true for THINKING in previous writings. Thus I titled this article as “World is Dichotomized”. As in this world everything and every person have good qualities and bad qualities

Nothing is good or bad, right or wrong in anything or any person but our thinking makes it so. Based on our thinking and thought process our mind classifies a particular quality as good or bad. A quality appearing      good to a particular person might be bad for you or bad for a particular person might be good for you. It all depends on what we think? How we think? And how much we think? I still remember those days when I was told to keep distance from notorious friends and to be with studious friends. But one of my brother told me don’t make friends by seeing their habits as every person have some good and some bad qualities. A person you feel is good does not mean that he don’t have bad qualities and vice versa. Our actual job is to make friends and decide that what qualities can be adopted from that person and what we should ignore. We should not avoid a person at all just because you are feeling or said that he is bad. Bad qualities are something written in bold letters and are always easier to see but we have to search for good things in persons and it always depends on our thinking and thoughts that how we classify good and bad.

So we must always try to extract good qualities of a person and adopt it in our life. In a fear to get something bad we might miss out something really good.

This will help you to learn new things from others and you will continue growing mentally.

We can analyze everything in terms of good or bad based on our thinking.

So, keep thinking and adopting the good from our surroundings.